Dokken's Rules of Common Wisdom
   or
      A Compendium of Knowledge from Matchbook Covers

      A long time ago in a faraway place, I started
      Dokken’s Rules of Common Wisdom.
      Some, my own origin, some, other’s,
      and some, adaptations.

      I hope you enjoy them.

 

On Our Creator and The Savior of Your Soul

Your best Friend is Jesus Christ - always there, always cares,
always loving and forgiving.  He will never, never let you down.  He will
never turn away.  He will -always- be there when you need Him most.

Failure, simple failure, is the constant of life -
even Jesus failed with His disciples, His followers, His message -
but He conquered failure by placing His trust in God -
and rose again - as He said He would
   So will we, if we believe …

God uses good people, bad people use God

God enters your life when you need Him, not when you want Him
  or
God gives you what you need, not what you want

Prayer is always answered - not necessarily as we want – nor when,
  but, it is always answered. Be patient and wait …

Religion is for people who are afraid of hell
Spirituality is for people who have been thru hell.

God does not answer prayer nor speak to you
in the blare and noise of the day,
but,
in quiet and solemn moments when
you are alone and actually take the time to listen.

God gives seed to the birds of the air,
   but He does not place it in their nests …

The one constant in the Universe is change,
   change that always occurs rather violently

Wisdom comes from Experience …
Knowledge comes from applied Facts …
Judgment comes from your Conscience …
Hope, and Faith, and Forgiveness, come from God …

A baby’s journey begins with their first step,
but does not end with the last,
   you see,
friends have to complete that journey for them
   they can no longer make by themselves …

You will never fail unless you quit

Jesus didn't quit, we crucified Him

Christ's First Miracle was changing Waiter to Wine
   So His host would not be embarrassed
   And, He, was a really Fun Guy indeed …

Jesus prayed to His Father,
   so should we …

One day, if you live long enough, you will realize …
   How close God stands beside you
   Every day, every night
   Behave as if you know He is there …
   He, is indeed …

One day, if you live long enough,
   You will be truly happy
   Not with things nor money,
   But with His Peace in your heart …

One day, if you live long enough,
   You will know
   What is truly important
   For you, for others, And, for God …

May we always place first,
   The Thought …
   That our Actions
   Would make our parents,
      And theirs,
      And Jesus Christ,
      And God,
   Proud of Us …

 


"Today is the day … "
"Remember God likes us best when we are flying by the seats of our pants … "

   Ruth Bernhard - Photographer - 1905-2006

The bond that links your true family is not one of blood,
  but,
of respect and joy in one another's lives.  Rarely do
members of the same family grow up under the same roof.
                                    Jonathan Livingston Seagull
                                    Richard Bach

God rose to the very height, the very pinnacle, of His ineptness

Miracles are a gift from God,
but one must rejoin the real world
after the miracle is finished

Self Pity
I never saw a wild thing
sorry for itself
A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough
without ever having felt sorry for itself
     D H Lawrence

God gives a bounteous harvest for all of nature,
but He does not put the seed in the bird's nest,
they have top go out and fetch it

What you think, will come true,
what you eat is how you will look,
your deeds will return to you,
the treasure you seek is the treasure you will inherit

Thoughts always turn into actions, be careful with them,
   one does not know where they will lead …

Who taught us to ask, for that which makes us weep …

God created mankind for His amusement, not ours

Life is the most fragile thing on this earth,
death the most fleeting – the most painful,
eternity is a very long time,
  Be very careful of the life you lead,
  you do not know how much you have left.

If at all possible, treat everyone you meet as if it is
the last time you will be with them
      It may be … that last time …

Christ was smart, He did not get married

It is acceptable, and proper, for a married man
to feel sorry for himself, from time to time

It is far better to want something you do not have,
than to have something you do not want

Life has an urgency about it when you
spill Coke all over your mouse …

What spirit is so empty and blind,
that it cannot recognize the fact
that the foot is more noble than the shoe,
and skin more beautiful
than the garment with which it is clothed?

(or)

And who is so barbarous as not to understand
that the foot of a man is nobler than his shoe,
and his skin nobler than
that of the sheep with which he is clothed.
   Michelangelo


 

Now, it makes so much sense,
it is so clear,
The length of time between
Monday morning and Friday evening
is far longer then the length of time between
Friday evening and Monday morning

One can not consider they have achieved the lofty
rank of 'Fine Art Photographer', until, a customer
has asked them to remove the spaghetti from one
of their prints.

   Only then, can the photographer truly achieve
   the humility and wisdom so dearly necessary ...

And, my mother thinks I am such a fast learner …

On a ship, the individual parts will sink, but when combined together,
they can weather the typhoon, sail 'round the world,
and, protect the very crew that mans her, provides for her, cares for her

In matters of True Religion, all compasses, no matter what creed,
nor what temple they are in, point due North - towards God.

It’s more fun to be in the race, than sitting on the bleachers

Life is so tumultuous, so unfair, so very real,
be Gentle with yourself – as few others will

If one drop of oil is good, two is most certainly better
                              (The first Rule I created c1962)

The common denominator of all mankind is the stomach flu,
  it treats everyone the same
                              (The Second … )

If it is going to be cold, it may as well be white
                              (The Third … )

Everyone on Earth gets twenty four hours a day,
not one second more, not one second less –
everyone gets absolutely the same

Loss, not Profit, is a four letter word

Work is still a four letter word.

Thou shalt not employ used fittings in thy plumbing project,

Any amount of profit, any, far exceeds any amount of loss

Quitters Don't Win, Winners Don't Quit

Taxes are not paid by any business,
nor by any government,
but by the households and families of America

Begging is a time tested, absolutely practical, completely profitable
and totally honorable profession

Investments do not have a life of their own,
they are only the result of human behavior - absolute and consuming greed

One will never find fortune in a bookstore,
one must work hard to find fortune their own way

If one is going to upgrade one's computer - buy a new one.

Money does not come with instructions

The Universe exists quite nicely without money

You can not own nor give away money

By itself, money does not have a conscience

If one expects to have money, one must handle money.  The money one
accumulates can never exceed the total handled.

Management must thoroughly understand their business, so they understand
how to manage their business thoroughly

A man's fancy turns towards other things in the Spring, as the
oxygen content of the air is much higher and fresher than the Winter

The epitome of confusion, is, a PostIt note stuck to a Sharp Organizer

A ship is safe in harbor, but that is not what a ship is for

Good captains, and good sailors, are tested at sea, not at port

Have you noticed, Priests always have communion each Sunday

If one acts the part, most people will accept that person knows the part

The accounting method one keeps, determines their destiny

It is much better to think of today, not as Tuesday,
  But as Monday+1 and Friday-3.
Most folks think in simple terms,
   And -1 +3 gets the mind all befuddled ...

There is only first place, second place does not exist

Being In Second Place Is Actually Being The First Place Loser

It is not unreasonable for reasonable people to disagree
But, it is unreasonable, for reasonable people to be disagreeable …

If I must ask someone to do a thing they do not want to do,
I am not a good leader
      The Chief (From a Stone Age Tribe in Brazil's Outback)

There are two basic kinds of managers,
the leaders who do not have to ask,
and the bullies …

Prove It In Sales

There is nothing more powerful, more constant, to force someone,
no matter how lazy, from the house to work for a living,
    than daytime television

Live younger longer

Folks will still cut their fingernails, have haircuts and wrestle with
their very ineptness, no matter the technology nor age we live in

Selling price is always a compromise between buyer and seller

Buy low and sell high

Corporations are not in business for profit, profit is simply
the tool corporations use, to remain in business long enough
to fulfill the egos and uncompromising greed of management

To follow another's advice,
that man must have experienced the thing
and must know more than yourself

If one spent as much time exercising as one does eating, one's health
would never be in question

Don't expect great pictures from bad negatives

The negative should not look better than the resulting picture

If one has to ask how much the taxes are, one can not afford the property

If one must ask the price, one can not afford it …
   J P Morgan on being asked the price of a yacht

The value of a programmer is perceived to be directly related
to the size of the compooter.  If the compooter is in a locked room,
out of sight, double, or triple, that perceived value.